We all know how rewarding gardening can be—and also how sometimes completely frustrating—gardening can be.
One day, you’re harvesting beautiful tomatoes and feeling like a pro; the next, your lettuce is feeding every pest in the neighborhood. Been there, done that!

When I first started my little (now not so little) backyard garden, I was all trial and error. (Mostly error.)
Over the years, though, I’ve picked up some things that have saved me time, money, and a whole lot of aggravation. If you’re here, I’m guessing you’re on a similar path, and I’m happy to share what I’ve learned.

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Lesson #1: Plants Are Like People—They Need Good Neighbors
It took me way too long to figure out that some plants thrive when they’re paired with the right “friends”. I’m talking about companion planting—have you tried it?
For example, basil and tomatoes are like PB&J. Not only does basil keep pests away, but it also makes your tomatoes taste better. Then there are carrots and onions, which keep each other’s pests controlled.
For more on pairing plants effectively, check out our Companion Planting Cheat Sheet.
Lesson #2: Pest Problems? Your Plants Have It Under Control
Pests were my arch-nemesis when I started gardening. (I still have flashbacks of squash vine borers killing my squash!) But I’ve learned that certain plants can actually help keep pests away naturally.
Marigolds? They’re like a force field against nematodes and other creepy crawlies. Garlic and chives? They’re a secret weapon for deterring bugs while adding a little color to the garden. I can’t say I’m pest-free, but these have made a huge difference.

Check out these effective homemade solutions in our DIY Plant Sprays Guide.
Lesson #3: Planning Is Everything
I used to just toss seeds in the ground and hope for the best. Spoiler alert: It didn’t go well. Now, I plan out my garden before I even grab a garden fork.
I think about what veggies we’ll actually eat, when to plant them, and where they’ll go. It’s like playing garden Tetris. Sure, it takes a little effort upfront, but when everything starts growing and flourishing, it’s totally worth it.
For a little more structured approach, consider our Plot, Plan, & Plant Planner. lol

Lesson #4: You Don’t Need a Big Yard to Grow Big Dreams
Not everyone has space for a sprawling garden, and that’s okay. I’ve seen some of the coolest setups in small backyards, balconies, and even windowsills. I don’t have much of a backyard and the soil is unworkable – it was ALL stacked against me!
Container gardening, vertical gardens—there’s always a way to make it work. If I can grow cucumbers in an old kiddie pool, you can definitely make magic happen in a small space!

Maximize your space with our Container Sizes Cheat Sheet.
Lesson #5: Write It Down, or You’ll Forget (Trust Me)
One year, I planted way too many Cherry Tomatoes because I forgot I already had some going.
Now, I keep a simple garden journal where I keep track of what I plant, when I plant it, and what worked (or didn’t). It’s been a lifesaver—and honestly, kind of fun to look back on.
Keep track of your gardening activities with our Garden Journal.
Want to Make Gardening Even Easier?
If you’re nodding along and thinking, “Yep, I’ve been there,” then let me tell you about something that’s been a game-changer for me: The Backyard Gardening Guide.

This guide is packed with everything I wish I’d known when I started. It’s like having a gardening buddy who’s been through it all and is ready to share their tips and tricks.
Whether you’re figuring out companion planting, managing pests, or planning your garden layout, it’s all in there.
If you’re ready to skip some of the trial and error and grow your best garden yet, click here to grab your copy of The Backyard Gardening Guide.
And if you’re just getting started or feel like you’re missing a few basics, this might help too:
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I promise, you’ll thank yourself later.
Let’s grow together!
Here are some more tips you might like:
The Ultimate Guide to Companion Planting in Your Backyard Garden
Planning Your Garden: Tips for a Productive Season
Natural Pest Control: Protecting Your Garden Without Chemicals


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